Talking With Your Son About Sex

When most people think about how a father should talk with his son about sex they often recall talks in the spirit of “let's have a man-to-man talk” when the issue is about how it happens in birds and the bees. Today children grow up too fast and talks about birds and bees have no use. If your son is already an adolescent then it is quite late to start first discussions about sexuality.

If you keep an open relationship with your child from the very beginning, then there will be no need in such discussions in the future.

 Curiosity associated with sex appears in children very early, but their sexuality appears even earlier. Anyone who has witnessed how the little boy touches or pulls his penis or scrotum (sometimes he does it very insistently) knows that this is not just a casual investigation. He derive pleasure from it and this pleasure is much stronger than the pleasure he gets from pilling his finger on the leg.

 Infants are sexual beings or, it's better to say, sensual beings because we generally do refer sexuality to later stages of development. However, their ability to get physical and sexual pleasure are minimized by us, because we all tend to minimize it.

Freud called infantile sexuality "multiple perversion" but in fact is not perversion, it is our own attempts to suppress it. The way you react to your son's curiosity and answer his questions about your and his body may be important lessons related to sexuality. Showing your healthy and loving attitude towards his sexuality and the fact that your son will get from you a reward, should be the first thing you should do.

 

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[Tom Riddle]

This is a really nice post, I think every parent should openly talk to there parents and tell them about safety and STD's.

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